Sunday, July 13, 2008

evening July 13

Went to the art show, but found out some people are not into it, I had no idea. But I guess it's up to me to live and learn. Next time I'll just make these things an artist date and go with myself or people who are into this. Why bother torturing people who are not, it's just too painful, I'm sure for everyone involved.

I think I will need to work on increasing my independence here, it may be the only solution. There are a lot of fears around this, but I will get over it. I always thought that people had to kind of open up to the other persons likes and hobbies, do things as a couple..etc, but maybe I am wrong...maybe it is normal just to go off and do your own things, maybe that's the sign of a healthy long term relationship two people doing their own things but not really doing stuff together....living under the same roof.


chicken pot pie 10 points
salad 2 points
ice tea 1 point (unsweetened)
m&ms 5 points
popcorn 3

21+14= 35 points, 2 points under my limit. yey, I did it! Tomorrow is weigh in day and as usual I have no idea what it will be.

1 comments:

Shihtzu Staff said...

I think it is important to any long term relationship that each person do things on their own. I think it helps to prevent co-dependence. Deb and I often do separate things and some things we do together depending on mood, time etc.